Break Free
The past few years have taught me a
valuable lesson, always have a goal.
Keep moving forward by opening your mind, connecting with your partner,
and spending time with people who you love and love you back unconditionally. Life is fluid, but I’m amazed how we
fight that motion. We express
where we want to be, or what we want to do and how much money we require, but
then that is where the flow comes abruptly to a halt. We build dams to keep all of our goals and dreams caged.
There are millions of websites, and blog posts on why we stifle ourselves from
moving forward. Two sites that
quickly come to mind are Marc and Angel Hack Life and Tiny Buddha. Both are great sources of insight,
motivation and information.
What is the first step towards living your dream? You need to commit. But more importantly
you need to embrace your breaking point.
I will use myself as an example.
There was a period of time in my life where I was toxic. My environment was toxic. I did my best
to move forward, but it was useless. I needed to accept that I was in
trouble. Once I did that, I needed
to act. This element took
years. I am talking years, and
years, before I was ready.
Mentally, I was paralyzed.
I had an idea of what life could become but I allowed every negative
thought to break apart that vision.
The few friends that knew what I was going
through did their best to counsel me.
But their words while comforting were drowned out by my “logic”. I could
not fathom how I could change my situation. I was so absorbed by my environment
that the fear of moving, crippled me. Then one day a good friend (who definitely
had heard enough of me going on and on) took a sip of her wine and said, “When
you are ready, you won’t need to talk to anyone. You will just do it, because
you’ve finally made up your mind.”
She was right.
The moment the dam burst, was an ugly day
and event in my life. But I figure that the Universe had gotten tired of me
stalling. From that moment, what I believed to be an impossible and unhealthy
situation, shifted. Looking back I can remember fragments, words, actions, the
talks, and the healing. While many of those memories are blurred, my commitment
to a healthy and positive resolution never waned. It was my sole focus. I refused to allow negative thoughts
to infiltrate. Trust me, they tried. My vision became my reality. And if I am
to be completely honest, it turned out better than I could have imagined.
Out of the numerous lessons I learned by
this experience, one stands out. Take the moment the dam shatters as a gift.
Run with it and the necessary work, actions and “right” situations will align
themselves. Jump over, break though and smash any hurdles that come your way.
Your job is to remain focused. And, stay positive.
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